Jag Moondi Episode

In the latest episode of the Empowerography Podcast, my guest is Jag Moondi. Jag is a domestic violence advocate and survivor. She has created a support group called Meri Saheli @merisahelico who’s main objective is to provide a safe haven for those who want to share their story and obtain the resources and help they need through other organizations or their peers. In this episode we discuss domestic violence and abuse, living in fear, awakenings and light bulb moments, support systems and providing hope and support for others.

Domestic violence is a major issue around the world. It has transpired for generations and continues to be prevalent today.

During this pandemic alone – domestic violence has increased by 20-30% in many countries.

It is an issue that isn’t openly discussed in society, especially amongst the South Asian community.

I would like to start by sharing parts of my story with you.

Where do I begin?

My journey began 12 years ago when I thought I was marrying the man of my dreams. That fantasy quickly changed and instead of living the life of my dreams, I began what soon became a 12-year nightmare. I lived through this nightmare alone and did not let anyone think that I wasn’t living the perfect life.

For the first 5 years of my marriage, I even kept my family including my sisters in the dark. Even after telling them the truth and begging and pleading with them not to intervene, I stayed for another 5 years. In September 2017, with the support of my family I finally found the courage to leave that nightmare. With two young children ages 4 and 5.5, I left an abusive marriage and the life I had known for over a decade.

With no financial stability, plan or knowing how I was going to make things work, I set out to start a new life for myself and my two kids. I just knew I had to get out and give myself and my children a better life no matter the struggle – we would get through it together.

Over the last six months I have been sharing my journey from domestic violence to single motherhood on my IG page @singlemomlife_2 with the hope that anyone else who was or is currently in a situation similar to mine, knows that they are not alone.

I have also created a support group called Meri Saheli @merisahelico. Our main objective is to provide a safe haven for those who want to share their story and obtain the resources and help they need through other organizations or their peers.

As I reflect back, I have to believe that everything happens for a reason. Perhaps mine was to use my voice and share my story so that other women may have the strength and courage to leave an abusive marriage. To give them hope; all while empowering them to live their best life!

I wish to bring more light to this issue and be the voice for those who are unable to speak their own story.

IG - https://www.instagram.com/singlemomlife_2

https://www.instagram.com/merisahelico